Living
1. Living (daughter of Pain, Arthur Clement and Mann, Cecilie Winifred). Family/Spouse: Living. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]
Children:
2. Pain, Arthur Clement was born on 18 Jun 1913 in Montague House, Church Street, Leatherhead, , Surrey, England (son of Pain, Dr. Basil Hewitt and Maw, Sidney "Kitty" Ruth "Kitty"); died on 12 Apr 2010 in 1 Morris Rd, Broadway, , Worcestershire, England.Other Events and Attributes:
- Name: Clement
- Name: Clement Pain
- Occupation: Teacher, Headmaster, Administrator
- Reference Number: 36
- _UID: 2B657D16375149BB8F68FAC782DC3BD2D2FE
Notes:
Documents: Birth certificate (short version)
Marriage certificate
He has always been called by his second name, Clement. These notes contain only a summary of his life as he has written considerable memoirs about various aspects of his life.
As the only son of a doctor, Clement was sent at the age of nearly 8 to board at a Preparatory School at Hook Heath near Woking, having previously been taught, alongside his sister Mary, by a governess at home. The Prep School was run by one of his mother's cousins, Reggie Maw and his wife Gertie. Five years later, he went to Sherbourne School where he was streamed into Classics which is what he ended up doing at Cambridge, although his gifts and interest really lay with Maths and sciences, which remained true throughout his life. Like Cecilie, he later changed midway from Classics to read Theology at Cambridge.
After university, Clement offered himself to CMS as a missionary teacher and left in September 1935. He travelled by train from Mombasa to Nairobi and then on to Kampala, where he was sent to teach at King's College, Budo, the top school in Uganda. In June 1940, he was called up into the East African Forces, when Italy came into the War and had thousands of troops in Ethiopia, to serve in Kenya for 8 months. He was then sent (on 31.1.1941) to be Headmaster of Mbarara High School (MHS) in Ankole Throughout these years, he continued to correspond with Cecilie and eventually sent her a telegram in June 1941asking her to marry him, not having seen each other for 6 years. She arrived in 1942 and they married at the end of 1942 although at first they didn't see very much of each other as she was at Mwiri (Jinja) before they married and then at Buloba for another term before she was allowed to join him in Mbarara. They were married in Namirembe Cathedral, Kampala by the Bishop of Uganda, with Hugh and Peggy Trowell organising and hosting the wedding; Hugh Trowell "gave Cecilie away", and Celia Herbert and Jenny Trowell were bridesmaids. There weren't many at the wedding, and no family members. Unfortunately, everyone suffered from food poisoning as a result of the reception.
After the honeymoon, Clement returned to MHS, where Cecilie joined him a term later.
Letter from Clement Pain in Uganda to his family in England
PASSION SUNDAY 11 APRIL 1943 MBARARA HIGH SCHOOL, UGANDA
My dear Mother, Daddy, Ruth, Joan and Mary,
Another week has gone which brings the day of our meeting nearer and nearer. We shall probably be together for Easter, but whether here or there we do not yet know. We have decided to break up on Thursday, April 22, the day before Good Friday, owing to food difficulties. There is plenty of matoke 65 miles away, but that means that it is costing us over sh60/- a week extra to feed the school. Therefore it seems rather extravagant to stay for the long Easter weekend which is all holiday. Of course it would be good to be here for Easter because many boys will not be able to have their Easter Communions in their villages. However, it cannot be helped. But whether Cecilie will be released on Maundy Thursday or will have to wait until after Easter is still uncertain. If she is not released, then I will go up there. That would be very nice as we should have Good Friday, Sat., and Easter Sun. when she would not have any work to do, so that would be nice and peaceful. I should quite like to see the place where she has been working, too. Then I would spend the two or three days after Easter in seeing the Dentist, Doctor for my annual medical examination, and another Doctor about my eyes, while she worked in the daytime, and I would sleep at Balaba.
Last Wednesday I had to go 20 miles out in my car in order to get food. The lorry went to this place 65 miles on Monday and then broke down 51 miles away on the return journey as the battery gave up and probably dynamo trouble as well. So the school did not have full rations for Tuesday night and there was nothing for Wednesday lunch. It is lucky I have still got my car which can take 2 people and 1100 or 1200 lbs. of matoke, in all about 3/4 of a ton. Of course I have to go very slowly and carefully with such a heavy load, and I don't expect it is too good for the car. The Roman Catholic School on the next hill to ours went home yesterday, so we have managed to last longer than they have, chiefly owing to my car, I suppose.
The rains have been good this last week, and one day we had over an inch. One of the things which have accentuated the food difficulties is of course the war. That makes trnasport difficult. There is a surplus of food in some parts, but there are not the lorries to transport it. Ankole is said by the writer of one school Geography book to be a semi desert. That may be true of the part round here, but there are fertile parts where the food is plentiful. And even in those parts where food is not plentiful there is as yet no real hardship, only there is not sufficient food over to supply our rather big needs. If the rains continue for another two months, then I think we in Ankole will be all right, although we shall have a difficult time for the next three months and we may have to have an extended holiday.
The electric light engine continues to go well. Considering its age it is doing very well. Being British, a Lister, it is very well made and I suppose it should go on for two years or more especially if I can get it rebored. Well, I've come to the end, so very much love to you all.
(Signed) Clement A.C.PAIN
But he was called to Kampala in August 1943 where he spent 6 months based at Namirembe as the Educational Secretary General for Protestant Missions. He was then given a two month leave in 1944, which they mainly spent in Tanganyika, having crossed Lake Victoria on a steamer, before returning to MHS in April. Margaret was born at Mengo Hospital, Kampala 7 months later.
Clement was an excellent HM and got to know all his pupils, visiting them in their homes throughout Ankole and occasionally beyond. With his phenomenal memory, he rememberd all their names and details for the rest of his life and was rarely caught out! He also had an amazing memory for places and roads, journeys and events. He and Cecilie left Uganda in 1954 to return to England for the benefit of Margaret's and Dennis's education, living for the first 9 years in Tunbridge Wells (144 St John's Road) to be near his family.
He found life very hard when he tried to look for a teaching job, having been in Uganda for 19 years and having never taught in England. Eventually, he got a job teaching Art and Crafts, and then Maths, in a tough secondary modern school (Swanscombe) in Greenhithe (north Kent) which required an hour's drive each way. It was so different from teaching in Uganda that he was very unhappy. After just over two years there, he got a job in 1957 at the Royal Victoria Secondary Modern School in Tunbridge Wells, but after only one term, he was appointed by the Uganda Government as the Assistant Adviser in the Uganda Students Office, working at Uganda House in Trafalgar Square. He was responsible for placing and looking after 1500 Ugandan students who, at that time, when Uganda was still a Protectorate, were coming to the UK to study. Many of them were former students or their relatives, so he remained in close contact with Ugandan friends. He travelled all over the UK visiting them in their colleges etc.
In 1963, he was made redundant and got a job as Secretary (=Administrator) of the Institute of Education at Durham University. At first, they lived in a residential caravan until the new house at 27 High Meadows, Shincliffe (just outside Durham) was completed.
After 6 years in Durham, they went back to Uganda in January 1970 as he was appointed the Warden of University Hall at Makerere, Kampala. He did a wonderful job there at a very difficult time, when the university was a ferment of political dissent both before and after Amin took over from Obote in a coup in January 1971. As Amin became more and more repressive and irrational and violent, the halls of residence were frequently 'raided' by the security men who arrested students and staff, and Clement was often at the police station late at night trying to intervene and procure their release, or was hiding threatened people in his home. A number of their friends and former pupils were killed. As a very reserved, sensitive and gentle person, he found this time increasingly distressing and stressful and was perhaps on the verge of a breakdown when they went on holiday to Kenya for Christmas 1972. Whilst there, it became impossible for them to return and they had to go back to England without ever going back to their home at Makerere.
Although they returned to their house in Shincliffe (which had been rented out), at 59-60, he was too old to get another job. So they planned to sell the house and gave notice to the tenants who were renting "Porters" to leave so that they could go and live there. It took a long legal battle to get them out, and by the time they moved in, the house (which had been converted into 3 separate dwellings) was in a terrible state, as was the 'garden' which was overgrown. They paid to have the house beautifully restored, but worked on the one acre garden themselves, gradually turning it into an extensive and very productive fruit and vegetable garden. He used the Elizabethan barn as a workshop and developed his skill and love of carpentry.
Porters was, on the east side of Coopers Hill Road. It was originally a small detached tenement of Hathersham manor, itself a sub-manor of the manor of Nutfield. John Freeman held Porters in 1461 for an annual rental of 1s.3d. A John Porter held the adjacent land of Farnhills and Nomansland in 1528. In 1577, Nicholas Isted (aged 64) was living in it. In 1662, it became another addition to the holdings of the Clements of Kentwins.
After 10 years at "Porters", they sold Porters and all but one of the few remaining few fields that were all that were left of the large Clement (Pain) estate which had included Kentwyns and much land near Nutfield and Blechingley in Surrey. But he held onto one lovely south-facing field on the west side of Coopers Hill Road which he passed on to his children, Margaret and Dennis. They then moved to Broadway, Worcestershire, for a more restful retirement. In a letter to Margaret written on 20 Feb 1983, following a cataract operation, he wrote: "I am a little depressed about my eye. I got my new glasses on Friday, but about a fortnight ago, the eye, which had been quite clear, got cloudy again. Consequently even with the new lens in my glasses I can't see much. For instance, I can't read this letter at all with my right eye."
They lived at first in "Peel House", the converted Police station and house. Clement's eyesight continued to deteriorate, strating initially due to a bad cataract operation in Surrey, but then due to glaucoma and macular disease developing, until, in about 1991, he was registered blind and had to give up driving. However, he made the most of the little sight he still had and continued to be very active in the church and community and to go a woodwork class for some years. In 1993, they moved to a smaller and easier house in garden in Broadway. Although he was left with virtually no sight, his determination and memory and methodical ways enabled him to continue helping in the house and shopping etc so that few people realised that he was blind. And he could still navigate for Cecilie, who continued to drive, because of his amazing memory for routes and journeys. He also mastered basic computer techniques and learnt to touch type so that he was able to continue to write letters and to start on recording memories and parts of his life story. These are attached elsewhere.
Documents: Birth certificate (short version)
Marriage certificate
He has always been called by his second name, Clement. These notes contain only a summary of his life as he has written considerable memoirs about various aspects of his life.
As the only son of a doctor, Clement was sent at the age of nearly 8 to board at a Preparatory School at Hook Heath near Woking, having previously been taught, alongside his sister Mary, by a governess at home. The Prep School was run by one of his mother's cousins, Reggie Maw and his wife Gertie. Five years later, he went to Sherborne School where he was streamed into Classics which is what he ended up doing at Cambridge, although his gifts and interest really lay with Maths and sciences, which remained true throughout his life. Like Cecilie, he later changed midway from Classics to read Theology at Cambridge.
After university, Clement offered himself to CMS as a missionary teacher and left in September 1935. He travelled by train from Mombasa to Nairobi and then on to Kampala, where he was sent to teach at King's College, Budo, the top school in Uganda. In June 1940, he was called up into the East African Forces, when Italy came into the War and had thousands of troops in Ethiopia, to serve in Kenya for 8 months. He was then sent (on 31.1.1941) to be Headmaster of Mbarara High School (MHS) in Ankole Throughout these years, he continued to correspond with Cecilie and eventually sent her a telegram in June 1941asking her to marry him, not having seen each other for 6 years. She arrived in 1942 and they married at the end of 1942 although at first they didn't see very much of each other as she was at Mwiri (Jinja) before they married and then at Buloba for another term before she was allowed to join him in Mbarara. They were married in Namirembe Cathedral, Kampala by the Bishop of Uganda, with Hugh and Peggy Trowell organising and hosting the wedding; Hugh Trowell "gave Cecilie away", and Celia Herbert and Jenny Trowell were bridesmaids. There weren't many at the wedding, and no family members. Unfortunately, everyone suffered from food poisoning as a result of the reception.
After the honeymoon, Clement returned to MHS, where Cecilie joined him a term later.
Letter from Clement Pain in Uganda to his family in England
PASSION SUNDAY 11 APRIL 1943 MBARARA HIGH SCHOOL, UGANDA
My dear Mother, Daddy, Ruth, Joan and Mary,
Another week has gone which brings the day of our meeting nearer and nearer. We shall probably be together for Easter, but whether here or there we do not yet know. We have decided to break up on Thursday, April 22, the day before Good Friday, owing to food difficulties. There is plenty of matoke 65 miles away, but that means that it is costing us over sh60/- a week extra to feed the school. Therefore it seems rather extravagant to stay for the long Easter weekend which is all holiday. Of course it would be good to be here for Easter because many boys will not be able to have their Easter Communions in their villages. However, it cannot be helped. But whether Cecilie will be released on Maundy Thursday or will have to wait until after Easter is still uncertain. If she is not released, then I will go up there. That would be very nice as we should have Good Friday, Sat., and Easter Sun. when she would not have any work to do, so that would be nice and peaceful. I should quite like to see the place where she has been working, too. Then I would spend the two or three days after Easter in seeing the Dentist, Doctor for my annual medical examination, and another Doctor about my eyes, while she worked in the daytime, and I would sleep at Balaba.
Last Wednesday I had to go 20 miles out in my car in order to get food. The lorry went to this place 65 miles on Monday and then broke down 51 miles away on the return journey as the battery gave up and probably dynamo trouble as well. So the school did not have full rations for Tuesday night and there was nothing for Wednesday lunch. It is lucky I have still got my car which can take 2 people and 1100 or 1200 lbs. of matoke, in all about 3/4 of a ton. Of course I have to go very slowly and carefully with such a heavy load, and I don't expect it is too good for the car. The Roman Catholic School on the next hill to ours went home yesterday, so we have managed to last longer than they have, chiefly owing to my car, I suppose.
The rains have been good this last week, and one day we had over an inch. One of the things which have accentuated the food difficulties is of course the war. That makes trnasport difficult. There is a surplus of food in some parts, but there are not the lorries to transport it. Ankole is said by the writer of one school Geography book to be a semi desert. That may be true of the part round here, but there are fertile parts where the food is plentiful. And even in those parts where food is not plentiful there is as yet no real hardship, only there is not sufficient food over to supply our rather big needs. If the rains continue for another two months, then I think we in Ankole will be all right, although we shall have a difficult time for the next three months and we may have to have an extended holiday.
The electric light engine continues to go well. Considering its age it is doing very well. Being British, a Lister, it is very well made and I suppose it should go on for two years or more especially if I can get it rebored. Well, I've come to the end, so very much love to you all.
(Signed) Clement A.C.PAIN
But he was called to Kampala in August 1943 where he spent 6 months based at Namirembe as the Educational Secretary General for Protestant Missions. He was then given a two month leave in 1944, which they mainly spent in Tanganyika, having crossed Lake Victoria on a steamer, before returning to MHS in April. Margaret was born at Mengo Hospital, Kampala 7 months later.
Clement was an excellent HM and got to know all his pupils, visiting them in their homes throughout Ankole and occasionally beyond. With his phenomenal memory, he rememberd all their names and details for the rest of his life and was rarely caught out! He also had an amazing memory for places and roads, journeys and events. He and Cecilie left Uganda in 1954 to return to England for the benefit of Margaret's and Dennis's education, living for the first 9 years in Tunbridge Wells (144 St John's Road) to be near his family.
He found life very hard when he tried to look for a teaching job, having been in Uganda for 19 years and having never taught in England. Eventually, he got a job teaching Art and Crafts, and then Maths, in a tough secondary modern school (Swanscombe) in Greenhithe (north Kent) which required an hour's drive each way. It was so different from teaching in Uganda that he was very unhappy. After just over two years there, he got a job in 1957 at the Royal Victoria Secondary Modern School in Tunbridge Wells, but after only one term, he was appointed by the Uganda Government as the Assistant Adviser in the Uganda Students Office, working at Uganda House in Trafalgar Square. He was responsible for placing and looking after 1500 Ugandan students who, at that time, when Uganda was still a Protectorate, were coming to the UK to study. Many of them were former students or their relatives, so he remained in close contact with Ugandan friends. He travelled all over the UK visiting them in their colleges etc.
In 1963, he was made redundant and got a job as Secretary (=Administrator) of the Institute of Education at Durham University. At first, they lived in a residential caravan until the new house at 27 High Meadows, Shincliffe (just outside Durham) was completed.
After 6 years in Durham, they went back to Uganda in January 1970 as he was appointed the Warden of University Hall at Makerere, Kampala. He did a wonderful job there at a very difficult time, when the university was a ferment of political dissent both before and after Amin took over from Obote in a coup in January 1971. As Amin became more and more repressive and irrational and violent, the halls of residence were frequently 'raided' by the security men who arrested students and staff, and Clement was often at the police station late at night trying to intervene and procure their release, or was hiding threatened people in his home. A number of their friends and former pupils were killed. As a very reserved, sensitive and gentle person, he found this time increasingly distressing and stressful and was perhaps on the verge of a breakdown when they went on holiday to Kenya for Christmas 1972. Whilst there, it became impossible for them to return and they had to go back to England without ever going back to their home at Makerere.
Although they returned to their house in Shincliffe (which had been rented out), at 59-60, he was too old to get another job. So they planned to sell the house and gave notice to the tenants who were renting "Porters" to leave so that they could go and live there. It took a long legal battle to get them out, and by the time they moved in, the house (which had been converted into 3 separate dwellings) was in a terrible state, as was the 'garden' which was overgrown. They paid to have the house beautifully restored, but worked on the one acre garden themselves, gradually turning it into an extensive and very productive fruit and vegetable garden. He used the Elizabethan barn as a workshop and developed his skill and love of carpentry.
Porters was, on the east side of Coopers Hill Road. It was originally a small detached tenement of Hathersham manor, itself a sub-manor of the manor of Nutfield. John Freeman held Porters in 1461 for an annual rental of 1s.3d. A John Porter held the adjacent land of Farnhills and Nomansland in 1528. In 1577, Nicholas Isted (aged 64) was living in it. In 1662, it became another addition to the holdings of the Clements of Kentwins.
After 10 years at "Porters", they sold Porters and all but one of the few remaining few fields that were all that were left of the large Clement (Pain) estate which had included Kentwyns and much land near Nutfield and Blechingley in Surrey. But he held onto one lovely south-facing field on the west side of Coopers Hill Road which he passed on to his children, Margaret and Dennis. They then moved to Broadway, Worcestershire, for a more restful retirement. In a letter to Margaret written on 20 Feb 1983, following a cataract operation, he wrote: "I am a little depressed about my eye. I got my new glasses on Friday, but about a fortnight ago, the eye, which had been quite clear, got cloudy again. Consequently even with the new lens in my glasses I can't see much. For instance, I can't read this letter at all with my right eye."
They lived at first in "Peel House", the converted Police station and house. Clement's eyesight continued to deteriorate, strating initially due to a bad cataract operation in Surrey, but then due to glaucoma and macular disease developing, until, in about 1991, he was registered blind and had to give up driving. However, he made the most of the little sight he still had and continued to be very active in the church and community and to go a woodwork class for some years. In 1993, they moved to a smaller and easier house in garden in Broadway. Although he was left with virtually no sight, his determination and memory and methodical ways enabled him to continue helping in the house and shopping etc so that few people realised that he was blind. And he could still navigate for Cecilie, who continued to drive, because of his amazing memory for routes and journeys. He also mastered basic computer techniques and learnt to touch type so that he was able to continue to write letters and to start on recording memories and parts of his life story. These are attached elsewhere.
Birth:
First name(s) Arthur C
Last name Pain
Birth quarter 3
Birth year 1913
Mother's maiden name Maw
District Epsom
County Surrey
Country England
Volume 2A
Page 74
Record set England & Wales Births 1837-2006
© brightsolid online publishing ltdArthur married Mann, Cecilie Winifred on 10 Dec 1942 in Namirembe Cathedral, Kampala, , Kampala, Uganda. Cecilie (daughter of Mann and Cogan) was born on 5 Nov 1913 in "Bodwyn", Cheam Rd, Sutton, , , England; died on 13 May 2006 in Evesham, , Worcestershire, England. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]
3. Mann, Cecilie Winifred was born on 5 Nov 1913 in "Bodwyn", Cheam Rd, Sutton, , , England (daughter of Mann and Cogan); died on 13 May 2006 in Evesham, , Worcestershire, England. Other Events and Attributes:
- Occupation: Teacher, Lecturer
- _UID: ACE24929F79445B8AF24C0E80A8FFD3FD8B5
Notes:
Documents: Birth certificate
Marriage certificate
Cecilie has a mixture of very happy and very unhappy memories of her childhood. She had a special affection for her father, and they often went for long outings and walks together, perhaps in Kew Gardens or, on holiday, in Devon and Cornwall. She particularly remembers a holiday at Boscastle after she had had rheumatic fever (which caused her to have a year off school)and was still very weak. But her father had a drink problem, which led to all sorts of problems at home, including terrible rows. Cecilie got a place at Girton College, Cambridge to read Classics (very few women went to University in those days, let alone to Cambridge), but withdrew because she was so afraid of leaving her mother alone at home with the rows. However, her father insisted she should go.
After 2 years at Cambridge reading Classics, she changed to Theology. Whilst there, she met Clement through Christian groups and meetings. After her degree, she did a year at Homerton College, Cambridge to train as a teacher and then taught at Queenswood School (a girls' Methodist public school). Whilst there, she and Clement carried on their 'courtship' through letters as he went out to Uganda as a missionary teacher with CMS. He eventually asked her to marry him in June 1941. Having already offered herself to CMS and left Queenswood at Easter 1941, she eventually managed to get a passage in March 1942 on the ship Thermistocles from Liverpool which sailed under Navy protection in a convoy during the War. She took with her Clement's grandmother's engagement ring and her wedding dress. They hadn't seen each other for 6 years! The voyage took 10 weeks as they had to go via Cape Town (South Africa) as the Suez Canal was closed. She then had to travel from Mombasa to Kampala. She was first sent to teach at Mwiri School near Jinja. She and Clement married at the end of 1942 but she had to teach another term at Buloba Teacher Training College before she was allowed to join Clement at Mbarara (Ankole) where he was Headmaster. Cecilie had a miscarriage, but later conceived Margaret whilst on holiday in Tanganyika (as it then was). She continued to teach at Mbarara High School, whilst employing a young Ugandan woman to help look after Margaret. They went back to England on leave in 1945, leaving Mbarara High School in May. With Margaret, they flew on a "flying boat" from Port Bell on Lake Victoria to Cairo (via the Nile at Khartoum), landing again on the Nile. From there, they went by boat from Port Said to Liverpool. They stayed for a year at Blakeney on the north Norfolk coast which is where Dennis was born in the midst of the terrible winter of 1945/46. They returned to Mbarara in August 1946 (having sailed from Hull to Mombasa on the "Modasa") where they were for another 8 years during which time they had one further leave in England in 1950 which they spent in Speldhurst, Kent, to be near Clement's family.
Cecilie taught again in England (RE and English), first at Tonbridge Secondary Modern School and later, after Margaret had left, at Tunbridge Wells Girls' Grammar School, where she also taught Latin. Soon after they moved to Durham in 1963 for Clement's job, Cecilie got a job at St Hild's Teacher Training College which involved travelling all over County Durham to see students on teaching practice. She and Clement then returned to Uganda for 3 years in 1970 after which they moved to "Porters", Nutfield, Surrey, and worked incredibly hard on the garden, turning the acre into a productive fruit and vegetable garden. Cecilie took up pottery, for which she showed a real gift, and produced many fine pieces, including a number of lamps. Being so close to London and Gatwick airport, they provided hospitality for so many people, including many Ugandans, as well as a pick-up service to and from Gatwick. In the end, this was all too much for them and they moved in 1983 to Broadway, in the Cotswolds (first Peel House and then, in 1993, to 1 Morris Road) for a more restful retirement. Unable to continue pottery, because of no facilities in the area, she took up watercolour painting.
In later years, Cecilie developed osteoarthritis (and had a hip and knee replaced), chest problems (eventually diagnosed as asthma), high blood pressure and diverticulitis, but still managed to remain very active in the the community and church.
Documents: Birth certificate
Marriage certificate
Cecilie has a mixture of very happy and very unhappy memories of her childhood. She had a special affection for her father, and they often went for long outings and walks together, perhaps in Kew Gardens or, on holiday, in Devon and Cornwall. She particularly remembers a holiday at Boscastle after she had had rheumatic fever (which caused her to have a year off school)and was still very weak. But her father had a drink problem, which led to all sorts of problems at home, including terrible rows. The only 'memoirs' which Cecilie ever wrote were the following short notes on 2.5.2002:
"These are random memories because, as everyone knows, I am quite hopeless about dates, so these memories come to me at odd times, completely unrelated and definitely not in chronological order.
"One, which I think must be the first, is of having to get under our strong, typical, wodden table during an air raid. I can (can I really?) remember a zeppelin in the sky. Perhaps that's right, I was thinking that zeppelins were German, but they were British too. Having started, I had better finish with the war [1914-1918 First World War]. The last memory is of the Armistice, being taken out of my cot (cot? surely not at just 5!) to see the whole sky illuminated by searchlights.
" I think I was four when I had my first really nasty nose-bleed. It was very frightening. I lay on the sofa and the doctor came. There were many more to come, not indivudally memorable, though I do remember the one when I had rheumatic fever. It started when I was asleep and, when I woke up in the middle of it, I thought I was dead! At the time, I was in a very small room in the flat in Streatham - a converted house. It was a funny shaped room, square with one corner sort of cut off, with a fireplace. I think I was about nine. The whole room was absolutely full of flowers. They took a very serious view of rheumatic fever in those days - and not long after, I had bronchial pneumonia. There were so many things i wasn't allowed to do after that. Dad used to carry me up the hills in Boscastle where we went on holiday, and I couldn't swim. When I went St Paul's Girls School, when I was fourteen, I had to wear a red swimming costume until I could swim a length - very humiliating! I must say that sometimes, after playing hockey (I played in the wing) I could hardly walk home from Turnham Green Station, and used to lean up against the wall at the bottom of the station staris. No-one took any notice and i never told ayone. I was supposed to have a heart murmur. I didn't want to be told I mustn't play games like hockey and lacrosse."
Cecilie got a place at Girton College, Cambridge to read Classics (very few women went to University in those days, let alone to Cambridge), but withdrew because she was so afraid of leaving her mother alone at home with the rows. However, her father insisted she should go.
After 2 years at Cambridge reading Classics, she changed to Theology. Whilst there, she met Clement through Christian groups and meetings. After her degree, she did a year at Homerton College, Cambridge to train as a teacher and then taught at Queenswood School (a girls' Methodist public school). Whilst there, she and Clement carried on their 'courtship' through letters as he went out to Uganda as a missionary teacher with CMS. He eventually asked her to marry him in June 1941. Having already offered herself to CMS and left Queenswood at Easter 1941, she eventually managed to get a passage in March 1942 on the ship Thermistocles from Liverpool which sailed under Navy protection in a convoy during the War. She took with her Clement's grandmother's engagement ring and her wedding dress. They hadn't seen each other for 6 years! The voyage took 10 weeks as they had to go via Cape Town (South Africa) as the Suez Canal was closed. She then had to travel from Mombasa to Kampala. She was first sent to teach at Mwiri School near Jinja. She and Clement married at the end of 1942 but she had to teach another term at Buloba Teacher Training College before she was allowed to join Clement at Mbarara (Ankole) where he was Headmaster. Cecilie had a miscarriage, but later conceived Margaret whilst on holiday in Tanganyika (as it then was). She continued to teach at Mbarara High School, whilst employing a young Ugandan woman to help look after Margaret. They went back to England on leave in 1945, leaving Mbarara High School in May. With Margaret, they flew on a "flying boat" from Port Bell on Lake Victoria to Cairo (via the Nile at Khartoum), landing again on the Nile. From there, they went by boat from Port Said to Liverpool. They stayed for a year at Blakeney on the north Norfolk coast which is where Dennis was born in the midst of the terrible winter of 1945/46. They returned to Mbarara in August 1946 (having sailed from Hull to Mombasa on the "Modasa") where they were for another 8 years during which time they had one further leave in England in 1950 which they spent in Speldhurst, Kent, to be near Clement's family.
Cecilie taught again in England (RE and English), first at Tonbridge Secondary Modern School and later, after Margaret had left, at Tunbridge Wells Girls' Grammar School, where she also taught Latin. Soon after they moved to Durham in 1963 for Clement's job, Cecilie got a job at St Hild's Teacher Training College which involved travelling all over County Durham to see students on teaching practice. She and Clement then returned to Uganda for 3 years in 1970 after which they moved to "Porters", Nutfield, Surrey, and worked incredibly hard on the garden, turning the acre into a productive fruit and vegetable garden. Cecilie took up pottery, for which she showed a real gift, and produced many fine pieces, including a number of lamps. Being so close to London and Gatwick airport, they provided hospitality for so many people, including many Ugandans, as well as a pick-up service to and from Gatwick. In the end, this was all too much for them and they moved in 1983 to Broadway, in the Cotswolds (first Peel House and then, in 1993, to 1 Morris Road) for a more restful retirement. Unable to continue pottery, because of no facilities in the area, she took up watercolour painting.
In later years, Cecilie developed osteoarthritis (and had a hip and knee replaced), chest problems (eventually diagnosed as asthma), high blood pressure and diverticulitis, but still managed to remain very active in the the community and church. For the last few years, she became increasingly home-bound and unable to do anything in the house as she developed Alzheimer's.
Birth:
First name(s) CECILIE W Last name MANN Birth year 1913 Birth quarter 4 Registration month - Mother's last name Cogan District Epsom County Surrey Country England Volume 2A Page 38 Record set England & Wales Births 1837-2006 Category Birth, Marriage & Death (Parish Registers) Subcategory Births & baptisms Collections from United Kingdom
First name(s) CECILIE WINIFRED Last name PAIN Gender Female Birth day 5 Birth month 11 Birth year 1913 Age - Death quarter 2 Death year 2006 District Evesham District number 5151 Register number 37D Entry number 221 Date of registration mm/yy 0506 County Worcestershire Country England Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007 Category Birth, Marriage & Death (Parish Registers) Subcategory Deaths & burials Collections from United Kingdom
Died:
First name(s) CECILIE WINIFRED Last name PAIN Gender Female Birth day 5 Birth month 11 Birth year 1913 Age - Death quarter 2 Death year 2006 District Evesham District number 5151 Register number 37D Entry number 221 Date of registration mm/yy 0506 County Worcestershire Country England Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007 Category Birth, Marriage & Death (Parish Registers) Subcategory Deaths & burials Collections from United Kingdom
Children:
Generation: 3
4. Pain, Dr. Basil Hewitt was born on 17 Jan 1879 in Forenta Villa, Cavendish Road, Willesden, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 21 Jun 1879 in St Mary's, Kilburn, , Middlesex, England (son of Pain, Clement and Cooke, Florence Charlotte); died on 3 Oct 1973 in Meadow Cottage, Speldhurst, , Kent, England.Other Events and Attributes:
- Name: Basil Hewett Pain
- _UID: 5E9914FF651A49DEBD8D2A94BAACF8D5EBB8
- Census: 2 Apr 1911, Montague House, Church Street, Leatherhead, , Surrey, England
- Occupation: 2 Apr 1911, Montague House, Church Street, Leatherhead, , Surrey, England; General Medical Practitioner
- Military: 1914
- Census: 19 Jun 1921, 4 Park Road, Southborough, , Kent, England
- Occupation: 19 Jun 1921, 4 Park Road, Southborough, , Kent, England; General Medical Practitioner on Own Account
- Census: 29 Sep 1939, Ridgeways, High Trees Road, Reigate, , Surrey, England
- Probate: 20 Nov 1973, Brighton, , Sussex, England
Notes:
Birth:
First name(s) Basil Hewett
Last name Pain
Birth quarter 1
Birth year 1879
Mother's maiden name Cooke
District Hendon
County Middlesex
Country England
Volume 3A
Page 154
Record set England & Wales Births 1837-2006
© brightsolid online publishing ltd
First name(s) Basil Hewitt
Last name Pain
Gender Male
Birth day 17
Birth month 1
Birth year 1879
Age -
Death quarter 4
Death year 1973
District Tonbridge
County Kent
Volume 5F
Page 2093
Country England
Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
(c) brightsolid online publishing ltd
Census:
PAIN, Basil Hewitt Head Married M 32 1879 General Medical Practitioner Brondesbury London N W
PAIN, Sidney Ruth Wife Married
5 years F 34 1877 Paddington London N W
PAIN, Ruth Daughter F 4 1907 Lyncombe Bath Somerset
PAIN, Joan Daughter F 1 1910 Leatherhead Surrey
APPLETON, Bessie Nurse Single F 25 1886 Domestic Nurse Gt Tothan Essex
GALE, May Servant Single F 26 1885 Housemaid Domestic Surbiton Surrey
TAMPLIN, Amy Servant Single F 27 1884 Cook Domestic Limpsfield Surrey
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RG number:
RG14 Piece:
2967 Reference:
RG14PN2967 RG78PN103 RD31 SD3 ED1 SN31
Registration District:
Epsom Sub District:
Leatherhead Enumeration District:
1 Parish:
Leatherhead
Address:
Montague House Church Street Leatherhead County:
Surrey
Occupation:
PAIN, Basil Hewitt Head Married M 32 1879 General Medical Practitioner Brondesbury London N W
PAIN, Sidney Ruth Wife Married
5 years F 34 1877 Paddington London N W
PAIN, Ruth Daughter F 4 1907 Lyncombe Bath Somerset
PAIN, Joan Daughter F 1 1910 Leatherhead Surrey
APPLETON, Bessie Nurse Single F 25 1886 Domestic Nurse Gt Tothan Essex
GALE, May Servant Single F 26 1885 Housemaid Domestic Surbiton Surrey
TAMPLIN, Amy Servant Single F 27 1884 Cook Domestic Limpsfield Surrey
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RG number:
RG14 Piece:
2967 Reference:
RG14PN2967 RG78PN103 RD31 SD3 ED1 SN31
Registration District:
Epsom Sub District:
Leatherhead Enumeration District:
1 Parish:
Leatherhead
Address:
Montague House Church Street Leatherhead County:
Surrey
Military:
First name(s) Basil H.
Last name Pain
Year 1914
Service number -
Rank or rating Surgeon
Unit or regiment -
Service R.N.
Awards -
1914 Star roll reference number -
Medals/clasps earned 1914-15 Star, Victory & British War Medals
How issued or disposed of Self.
Death year -
Death date -
Cause of death -
Notes -
Medal type Royal Navy Officers, Medal Roll, 1914-1920
Country Great Britain
Record set Britain, Campaign, Gallantry & Long Service Medals & Awards
Transcriptions copyright Jack Marshall 2010
Census:
First name(s) Last name Relationship to head Sex Birth year Age in years Birth place Occupation Employer
Basil Hewitt Pain Head Male 1879 42 Bermondsey, London, England General Medical Practitioner Own Account
Sidney Ruth Pain Wife Female 1877 44 London, London, England Home Duties -
Julia Florence Ruth Pain Daughter Female 1906 14 Bath, Somerset, England - -
Joan Margaret Pain Daughter Female 1909 11 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Agnes Mary Pain Daughter Female 1911 9 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Lucy Frida Evendet Governess Female 1902 19 Sainte-Croix, Switzerland - Private
Lilian Clara Large Servant Female 1890 31 Tonbridge, Kent, England - Private
First name(s) Basil Hewitt
Last name Pain
Sex Male
Birth year 1879
Census date 19 June 1921
Age in years 42
Age in months 5
Age as transcribed 42 y 5 m
Relationship to head Head
Marital status Married
Birth place Bermondsey, London, England
Birth county London
Birth country England
Transcribed birth place Bermondsey, London Nw
Occupation General Medical Practitioner
Occupation code 840
Occupation code with suffix 840/5
Employer Own Account
Employer code 731
Place of work 4 Park Rd, Southborough
Number of minor dependants 4
Language used to complete form English
Person making return Dr B H Pain
House number 4
Street Park Road
Address 4 Park Road
Full address as transcribed 4 Sand Road, Southborough
Parish Southborough
Registration district Tonbridge
Registration district number 50
Sub-district Tunbridge Wells
Sub-district number 1
Enumeration district number 3
County Kent
Country England
Ward of borough or urban district North
Borough, urban or rural district Southborough UD
Parliamentary borough or division Kent PC, Tonbridge Div.
Archive The National Archives
Archive series RG 15
Piece number 04158
Schedule number 133
Schedule type code E
District reference RD 50 RS 1 ED 3
Schedule type England household, single page, 10 entries
Other household member's first name(s) Sidney Ruth, Julia Florence Ruth, Joan Margaret, Agnes Mary, Lucy Frida, Lilian Clara
Other household member's last name Pain, Evendet, Large
Record set 1921 Census Of England & Wales
Category Census, land & surveys
Subcategory Census
Collections from Great Britain, England
Occupation:
First name(s) Last name Relationship to head Sex Birth year Age in years Birth place Occupation Employer
Basil Hewitt Pain Head Male 1879 42 Bermondsey, London, England General Medical Practitioner Own Account
Sidney Ruth Pain Wife Female 1877 44 London, London, England Home Duties -
Julia Florence Ruth Pain Daughter Female 1906 14 Bath, Somerset, England - -
Joan Margaret Pain Daughter Female 1909 11 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Agnes Mary Pain Daughter Female 1911 9 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Lucy Frida Evendet Governess Female 1902 19 Sainte-Croix, Switzerland - Private
Lilian Clara Large Servant Female 1890 31 Tonbridge, Kent, England - Private
First name(s) Basil Hewitt
Last name Pain
Sex Male
Birth year 1879
Census date 19 June 1921
Age in years 42
Age in months 5
Age as transcribed 42 y 5 m
Relationship to head Head
Marital status Married
Birth place Bermondsey, London, England
Birth county London
Birth country England
Transcribed birth place Bermondsey, London Nw
Occupation General Medical Practitioner
Occupation code 840
Occupation code with suffix 840/5
Employer Own Account
Employer code 731
Place of work 4 Park Rd, Southborough
Number of minor dependants 4
Language used to complete form English
Person making return Dr B H Pain
House number 4
Street Park Road
Address 4 Park Road
Full address as transcribed 4 Sand Road, Southborough
Parish Southborough
Registration district Tonbridge
Registration district number 50
Sub-district Tunbridge Wells
Sub-district number 1
Enumeration district number 3
County Kent
Country England
Ward of borough or urban district North
Borough, urban or rural district Southborough UD
Parliamentary borough or division Kent PC, Tonbridge Div.
Archive The National Archives
Archive series RG 15
Piece number 04158
Schedule number 133
Schedule type code E
District reference RD 50 RS 1 ED 3
Schedule type England household, single page, 10 entries
Other household member's first name(s) Sidney Ruth, Julia Florence Ruth, Joan Margaret, Agnes Mary, Lucy Frida, Lilian Clara
Other household member's last name Pain, Evendet, Large
Record set 1921 Census Of England & Wales
Category Census, land & surveys
Subcategory Census
Collections from Great Britain, England
Census:
First name(s) Last name(s) DOB Sex Occupation Marital status Schedule Schedule Sub Number
Basil Hewith Pain 17 Jan 1879 Male Medical Practitioner Retired Married 157 1
Sidney R Pain 16 Mar 1877 Female Unpaid Domestic Duties Married 157 2
Joan M Pain 26 Aug 1909 Female Piano Teacher Single 157 3
Agnes M Hecks (Pain) 13 Aug 1911 Female Unpaid Domestic Duties Single 157 4
Etha Pavey 01 Jan 1884 Female Domestic Nurse Single 157 5
Gertrude M Fisher 03 Jul 1885 Female School Mistress Single 157 6
Probate:
First name(s) Basil Hewitt
Last name Pain
Death year 1973
Death date 03 Oct 1973
Probate year 1973
Probate date 20 Nov 1973
Residence town Tonbridge
Registry Brighton
County Kent
Country England
Record set England & Wales Government Probate Death Index 1858-2019
© Findmypast
Died:
First name(s) Basil Hewitt
Last name Pain
Gender Male
Birth day 17
Birth month 1
Birth year 1879
Age -
Death quarter 4
Death year 1973
District Tonbridge
County Kent
Volume 5F
Page 2093
Country England
Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
(c) brightsolid online publishing ltd
First name(s) Basil Hewitt
Last name Pain
Death year 1973
Death date 03 Oct 1973
Probate year 1973
Probate date 20 Nov 1973
Residence town Tonbridge
Registry Brighton
County Kent
Country England
Record set England & Wales Government Probate Death Index 1858-2019
© FindmypastBasil married Maw, Sidney "Kitty" Ruth "Kitty" on 20 Jun 1905 in St Mary's, Kilburn, , Middlesex, England. Sidney (daughter of Maw, Charles and Trentham, Julia Florence) was born on 16 Mar 1877 in Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 22 Aug 1877 in Holy Trinity, Cowes, , Hampshire, England; died on 8 Jan 1947 in Ridgeways, High Trees Road, Reigate, , Surrey, England. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]
5. Maw, Sidney "Kitty" Ruth "Kitty" was born on 16 Mar 1877 in Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 22 Aug 1877 in Holy Trinity, Cowes, , Hampshire, England (daughter of Maw, Charles and Trentham, Julia Florence); died on 8 Jan 1947 in Ridgeways, High Trees Road, Reigate, , Surrey, England.Other Events and Attributes:
- _UID: 7237FF85313A40E39FF042876E4A39797D89
- Census: 3 Apr 1881, 18 Hyde Park Terrace, Paddington, , Middlesex, England
- Census: 5 Apr 1891, Holmesdale House, Nutfield, , Surrey, England
- Census: 31 Mar 1901, Holmesdale House, Nutfield, , Surrey, England
- Census: 2 Apr 1911, Montague House, Church Street, Leatherhead, , Surrey, England
- Census: 19 Jun 1921, 4 Park Road, Southborough, , Kent, England
- Occupation: 19 Jun 1921, 4 Park Road, Southborough, , Kent, England; Home Duties
- Census: 29 Sep 1939, Ridgeways, High Trees Road, Reigate, , Surrey, England
Notes:
Christened:
First name(s) Sidney Ruth Last name Maw Gender Female Birth year - Birth place - Baptism year 1877 Baptism date 22 Aug 1877 Residence Cowes, Hampshire, England Place Cowes County Hampshire Country England Father's first name(s) Charles Father's last name Maw Mother's first name(s) Julia Mother's last name - Record set England Births & Baptisms 1538-1975 Category Birth, Marriage, Death & Parish Records Subcategory Births & baptisms Collections from Great Britain
Census:
Ecclesiastical Parish: S S Peter & Paul
Census:
Ecclesiastical Parish: S S Peter & Paul
Census:
PAIN, Basil Hewitt Head Married M 32 1879 General Medical Practitioner Brondesbury London N W
PAIN, Sidney Ruth Wife Married
5 years F 34 1877 Paddington London N W
PAIN, Ruth Daughter F 4 1907 Lyncombe Bath Somerset
PAIN, Joan Daughter F 1 1910 Leatherhead Surrey
APPLETON, Bessie Nurse Single F 25 1886 Domestic Nurse Gt Tothan Essex
GALE, May Servant Single F 26 1885 Housemaid Domestic Surbiton Surrey
TAMPLIN, Amy Servant Single F 27 1884 Cook Domestic Limpsfield Surrey
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RG number:
RG14 Piece:
2967 Reference:
RG14PN2967 RG78PN103 RD31 SD3 ED1 SN31
Registration District:
Epsom Sub District:
Leatherhead Enumeration District:
1 Parish:
Leatherhead
Address:
Montague House Church Street Leatherhead County:
Surrey
Census:
First name(s) Last name Relationship to head Sex Birth year Age in years Birth place Occupation Employer
Basil Hewitt Pain Head Male 1879 42 Bermondsey, London, England General Medical Practitioner Own Account
Sidney Ruth Pain Wife Female 1877 44 London, London, England Home Duties -
Julia Florence Ruth Pain Daughter Female 1906 14 Bath, Somerset, England - -
Joan Margaret Pain Daughter Female 1909 11 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Agnes Mary Pain Daughter Female 1911 9 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Lucy Frida Evendet Governess Female 1902 19 Sainte-Croix, Switzerland - Private
Lilian Clara Large Servant Female 1890 31 Tonbridge, Kent, England - Private
First name(s) Sidney Ruth
Last name Pain
Sex Female
Birth year 1877
Census date 19 June 1921
Age in years 44
Age in months 3
Age as transcribed 44 y 3 m
Relationship to head Wife
Marital status Married
Birth place London, London, England
Birth county London
Birth country England
Transcribed birth place London W
Occupation Home Duties
Language used to complete form English
Person making return Dr B H Pain
House number 4
Street Park Road
Address 4 Park Road
Full address as transcribed 4 Sand Road, Southborough
Parish Southborough
Registration district Tonbridge
Registration district number 50
Sub-district Tunbridge Wells
Sub-district number 1
Enumeration district number 3
County Kent
Country England
Ward of borough or urban district North
Borough, urban or rural district Southborough UD
Parliamentary borough or division Kent PC, Tonbridge Div.
Archive The National Archives
Archive series RG 15
Piece number 04158
Schedule number 133
Schedule type code E
District reference RD 50 RS 1 ED 3
Schedule type England household, single page, 10 entries
Other household member's first name(s) Basil Hewitt, Julia Florence Ruth, Joan Margaret, Agnes Mary, Lucy Frida, Lilian Clara
Other household member's last name Pain, Evendet, Large
Record set 1921 Census Of England & Wales
Category Census, land & surveys
Subcategory Census
Collections from Great Britain, England
Occupation:
First name(s) Last name Relationship to head Sex Birth year Age in years Birth place Occupation Employer
Basil Hewitt Pain Head Male 1879 42 Bermondsey, London, England General Medical Practitioner Own Account
Sidney Ruth Pain Wife Female 1877 44 London, London, England Home Duties -
Julia Florence Ruth Pain Daughter Female 1906 14 Bath, Somerset, England - -
Joan Margaret Pain Daughter Female 1909 11 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Agnes Mary Pain Daughter Female 1911 9 Leatherhead, Surrey, England - -
Lucy Frida Evendet Governess Female 1902 19 Sainte-Croix, Switzerland - Private
Lilian Clara Large Servant Female 1890 31 Tonbridge, Kent, England - Private
First name(s) Sidney Ruth
Last name Pain
Sex Female
Birth year 1877
Census date 19 June 1921
Age in years 44
Age in months 3
Age as transcribed 44 y 3 m
Relationship to head Wife
Marital status Married
Birth place London, London, England
Birth county London
Birth country England
Transcribed birth place London W
Occupation Home Duties
Language used to complete form English
Person making return Dr B H Pain
House number 4
Street Park Road
Address 4 Park Road
Full address as transcribed 4 Sand Road, Southborough
Parish Southborough
Registration district Tonbridge
Registration district number 50
Sub-district Tunbridge Wells
Sub-district number 1
Enumeration district number 3
County Kent
Country England
Ward of borough or urban district North
Borough, urban or rural district Southborough UD
Parliamentary borough or division Kent PC, Tonbridge Div.
Archive The National Archives
Archive series RG 15
Piece number 04158
Schedule number 133
Schedule type code E
District reference RD 50 RS 1 ED 3
Schedule type England household, single page, 10 entries
Other household member's first name(s) Basil Hewitt, Julia Florence Ruth, Joan Margaret, Agnes Mary, Lucy Frida, Lilian Clara
Other household member's last name Pain, Evendet, Large
Record set 1921 Census Of England & Wales
Category Census, land & surveys
Subcategory Census
Collections from Great Britain, England
Census:
First name(s) Last name(s) DOB Sex Occupation Marital status Schedule Schedule Sub Number
Basil Hewith Pain 17 Jan 1879 Male Medical Practitioner Retired Married 157 1
Sidney R Pain 16 Mar 1877 Female Unpaid Domestic Duties Married 157 2
Joan M Pain 26 Aug 1909 Female Piano Teacher Single 157 3
Agnes M Hecks (Pain) 13 Aug 1911 Female Unpaid Domestic Duties Single 157 4
Etha Pavey 01 Jan 1884 Female Domestic Nurse Single 157 5
Gertrude M Fisher 03 Jul 1885 Female School Mistress Single 157 6
Notes:
Married:
BROWNE Charlotte Alice Hampstead 1a 1310
MAW Sidney Ruth Hampstead 1a 1310
Pain Basil Hewitt Hampstead 1a 1310
WEST Frank Hampstead 1a 1310Children:
- Pain, Julia Florence Ruth was born on 22 Jun 1906 in 2 Lynvale Villas, Lyncombe, Bath, Somerset, England; was christened on 2 Aug 1906 in Lyncombe and Widcombe, , Somerset, England; died on 11 Dec 1975 in District Tonbridge; was buried in Dec 1975.
- Pain, Joan Margaret was born on 26 Aug 1909 in Leatherhead, , Surrey, England; died in Oct 1988 in District Surrey S E.
- Pain, Agnes Mary was born on 13 Aug 1911 in Montague House, Church Street, Leatherhead, , Surrey, England; was christened on 26 Sep 1911 in Ss Mary & Nicholas, Leatherhead, , Surrey, England; died on 30 Dec 2007 in Oxted, , Surrey, England.
- 2. Pain, Arthur Clement was born on 18 Jun 1913 in Montague House, Church Street, Leatherhead, , Surrey, England; died on 12 Apr 2010 in 1 Morris Rd, Broadway, , Worcestershire, England.
6. Mann was born est 1885; and died. Other Events and Attributes:
- _UID: 82D76BCD40F94412BDEF3DDDB03F5D81B3E1
married Cogan. was born est 1885; and died. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]
7. Cogan was born est 1885; and died. Other Events and Attributes:
- _UID: 7CE8B006423D4175BF3A2B6D1D4E8A461B0D
Children:
- 3. Mann, Cecilie Winifred was born on 5 Nov 1913 in "Bodwyn", Cheam Rd, Sutton, , , England; died on 13 May 2006 in Evesham, , Worcestershire, England.
Generation: 4
8. Pain, Clement was born about Jul 1845 in Clapham, , Surrey, England; was christened on 27 Jul 1845 in Kennington, , Surrey, England; died between Jan and Mar 1924 in District Hampstead. Other Events and Attributes:
- _UID: E92555977B7C49A0AF4936C5C8F97F8F9CCA
- Occupation: 21 Jun 1879; Shipbroker
- Census: 19 Jun 1921, 316 Finchley Road, Hampstead, , Middlesex, England
Notes:
Birth:
First name(s) Clement
Last name Pain
Birth quarter 3
Birth year 1845
Mother's maiden name Clement
District Lambeth
County London
Country England
Volume 4
Page 219
Record set England & Wales Births 1837-2006
© brightsolid online publishing ltd
Christened:
First name(s) Clement
Last name Pain
Gender Male
Birth year 1845
Birth place -
Baptism year 1845
Baptism date 27 Jul 1845
Residence Kennington, Surrey, England
Place Kennington
County Surrey
Country England
Father's first name(s) John Bruce
Father's last name Pain
Mother's first name(s) Harriet
Mother's last name -
Record set England Births & Baptisms 1538-1975
Index (c) IRI. Used by permission of FamilySearch Intl
Census:
First name(s) Last name Relationship to head Sex Birth year Age in years Birth place Occupation Employer
Clement Pain Head Male 1845 75 Clapham, Surrey, England Retired Gentleman -
Florence Charlotte Pain Wife Female 1850 70 Peckham, Surrey, England - -
Agnes Pain Daughter Female 1876 45 Middlesex, England - -
Marion Ferrey Visitor Female 1864 57 Bournemouth, Hampshire, England - -
Isabel Jannet Ross Servant Female 1877 43 Hornsey, Middlesex, England - Servant Private
Ellie Forrest Ross Servant Female 1881 39 Hornsey, Middlesex, England - Servant PrivateClement married Cooke, Florence Charlotte between Apr and Jun 1874 in District Hampstead. Florence was born about 1851 in Newcross, , Kent, England; died between Apr and Jun 1937 in District Sevenoaks. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]
9. Cooke, Florence Charlotte was born about 1851 in Newcross, , Kent, England; died between Apr and Jun 1937 in District Sevenoaks. Other Events and Attributes:
- _UID: AB7B714A6260494293405512D8ACB547E87E
- Census: 19 Jun 1921, 316 Finchley Road, Hampstead, , Middlesex, England
Notes:
Census:
First name(s) Last name Relationship to head Sex Birth year Age in years Birth place Occupation Employer
Clement Pain Head Male 1845 75 Clapham, Surrey, England Retired Gentleman -
Florence Charlotte Pain Wife Female 1850 70 Peckham, Surrey, England - -
Agnes Pain Daughter Female 1876 45 Middlesex, England - -
Marion Ferrey Visitor Female 1864 57 Bournemouth, Hampshire, England - -
Isabel Jannet Ross Servant Female 1877 43 Hornsey, Middlesex, England - Servant Private
Ellie Forrest Ross Servant Female 1881 39 Hornsey, Middlesex, England - Servant Private
Died:
First name(s) Florence C
Last name Pain
Gender Female
Birth day -
Birth month -
Birth year 1851
Age 86
Death quarter 2
Death year 1937
District Sevenoaks
County Kent
Volume 2A
Page 1065
Country England
Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
(c) brightsolid online publishing ltdChildren:
- Pain, Clement Vaughan was born between Jul and Sep 1875 in Forenta Villa, Cavendish Road, Willesden, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 14 Sep 1875 in St Mary, Kilburn, , Middlesex, England; died between Oct and Dec 1896 in District Hendon.
- Pain, Agnes was born between Jul and Sep 1876 in Forenta Villa, Cavendish Road, Willesden, , Middlesex, England; died between Jan and Mar 1964 in District Battle.
- Pain, Florence Vivien was born between Jul and Sep 1877 in Forenta Villa, Cavendish Road, Willesden, , Middlesex, England; died between Oct and Dec 1903 in District Hampstead.
- 4. Pain, Dr. Basil Hewitt was born on 17 Jan 1879 in Forenta Villa, Cavendish Road, Willesden, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 21 Jun 1879 in St Mary's, Kilburn, , Middlesex, England; died on 3 Oct 1973 in Meadow Cottage, Speldhurst, , Kent, England.
10. Maw, Charles was born on 31 Jul 1835 in St Botolps, London, , England; was christened on 24 Aug 1835 in St Botolph Without Aldersgate, London, London, England (son of Maw, Solomon and Johnson, Jane); died on 5 Jan 1905 in Holmesdale House, Nutfield, , Surrey, England; was buried on 10 Jan 1905 in Municipal Cemetery, Dorking, , Surrey, England.Other Events and Attributes:
- _UID: 25C52A46BD784347A5979CD184F97F18D6ED
- Census: 6 Jun 1841, Colney Hatch Lane, Hornsey, , Middlesex, England
- Census: 30 Mar 1851, 1 London Road, Worcester, , Worcestershire, England; St Martin
- Census: 7 Apr 1861, 60 Iversfield, Hastings, , Sussex, England
- Occupation: 7 Apr 1861, 60 Iversfield, Hastings, , Sussex, England; Manufacturer of Surgical Instruments and was employing 150 to 200 men
- Census: 2 Apr 1871, Shrub Hill House, Dorking, , Surrey, England
- Occupation: 2 Apr 1871, Shrub Hill House, Dorking, , Surrey, England; Manufacturer of Surgical Instruments and was employing 215 people
- Census: 3 Apr 1881, 18 Hyde Park Terrace, Paddington, , Middlesex, England
- Occupation: 3 Apr 1881, 18 Hyde Park Terrace, Paddington, , Middlesex, England; Surgeon Instruments Manufacturer employing 300 men
- Census: 5 Apr 1891, Holmesdale House, Nutfield, , Surrey, England
- Occupation: 5 Apr 1891, Holmesdale House, Nutfield, , Surrey, England; Surgical Instruments Manufacturer (Employer)
- Census: 31 Mar 1901, Holmesdale House, Nutfield, , Surrey, England
- Occupation: 31 Mar 1901, Holmesdale House, Nutfield, , Surrey, England; Surgical Instrument Maker (Employer)
- Probate: 28 Feb 1905, London, , Greater London, England
Notes:
Correspondence with the Spectacle Makers Company
Dear Andrew Maw. Your email of the 10th September has been passed onto me as the Honorary Archivist of the Spectacle Makers Company. There are 5 members of the Maw family on our records. The first is Solomon Maw of 11, Aldersgate Street, London. His occupation is stated as "Surgical Instrument Maker". He became a Freeman of the Company 7/12/1843 and a Liveryman 2/5/1849. He died in 1861. He was the son of George Maw late of Peckham, Surrey, who was a Merchant by trade. The second is Charles Maw, also of 11, Aldersgate Street, London and also a Surgical Instrument Maker. Both Solomon and Charles became members of the Company by "Redemption" i.e. they paid for it. Charles is Solmon's son. Charles became Free of the Company and a Liveryman on the same day, not unusual at that time, 2/10/1856. It was Solomon who started the family connection with the Spectacle Makers Company. The next two, Charles Trentham Maw and Henry Trentham Maw, are the sons of Charles and became Freemen by "Servitude" i.e. their father was a Freeman of the Company at the time of their birth. Charles Trentham Maw was a Surgical Instrument Maker of 7/12, Aldersgate Street, London. He became Free of the Company and a Liveryman 15/5/1885. Henry Trentham Maw also of 7/12 Aldersgate Street, is shown as a Surgeon. He became Free and a Liveryman 8/9/1897. Finally comes Partrick Charles Maw grandson of Charles and son of Henry Trentham. He obtained his Freedom and Livery 6/2/1923 by Patrimony as the son of Henry Trentham. He is shown as a Druggist of 7/12, Aldersgate Street. There is no indication in the records of the date of birth of any of these 5 and the death of only one. You may already know of the Livery Company set-up. In case you don't a Freeman is the basic "member" of a Livery Company. The next step for those particularly interested is to become a Liveryman. To become a Freeman or a Liveryman would require the sponsorship of existing members of the Company. Of the three ways of becoming Free of a Company Freedom and Redemption I have already mentioned. The third way was by Servitude by virtue of an apprenticeship with an existing Freeman or Liveryman of the Company. I hope this information will add a little to your tracing of your family history. Colin Eldridge.
clerk@spectaclemakers.com
Christened:
First name(s) Charles
Last name Maw
Gender Male
Birth year 1835
Birth place -
Baptism year 1835
Baptism date 24 Aug 1835
Place -
County London
Country England
Father's first name(s) Solomon
Father's last name Maw
Mother's first name(s) Jane
Mother's last name -
Record set England Births & Baptisms 1538-1975
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Census:
Husband'shot?
Census:
Ecclesiastical Parish: S S Peter & Paul
Occupation:
Ecclesiastical Parish: S S Peter & Paul
Census:
Ecclesiastical Parish: S S Peter & Paul
Probate:
Maw Charles of Aldersgate Street London and of "Holmesdale" Nutfield Surrey died 5 January 1905 at "Holmesdale" Probate London 28 February 1905 to Charles Trentham Maw surgeons' instrument maer Fredrick Trentham Maw barrister at law and Mowbray Trentham surgeon's instrument maker Effects £342065 16s. 3d.
First name(s) Charles
Last name Maw
Death year 1905
Death date 05 Jan 1905
Probate year 1905
Probate date 28 Feb 1905
Residence town Nutfield
Registry London
County Surrey
Linked persons Mowbray Trentham Maw
Country England
Record set England & Wales Government Probate Death Index 1858-2019
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Died:
First name(s) Charles
Last name Maw
Gender Male
Birth day -
Birth month -
Birth year 1836
Age 69
Death quarter 1
Death year 1905
District Reigate
County Surrey
Volume 2A
Page 136A
Country England
Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
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First name(s) Charles
Last name Maw
Death year 1905
Death date 05 Jan 1905
Probate year 1905
Probate date 28 Feb 1905
Residence town Nutfield
Registry London
County Surrey
Linked persons Mowbray Trentham Maw
Country England
Record set England & Wales Government Probate Death Index 1858-2019
© Findmypast
Buried:
First name(s) Charles
Last name Maw
Birth year 1836
Age 69
Death year 1905
Burial year 1905
Burial date 10 Jan 1905
Place Dorking
Church Municipal Cemetery
County Surrey
Country England
Record set National Burial Index For England & Wales
West Surrey Family History Society
Transcriptions © West Surrey Family History Society
Charles married Trentham, Julia Florence on 20 Sep 1860 in St John's Church, Upper Holloway, Middlesex, England. Julia (daughter of Trentham, Reverend William Henry and Nelson, Mary) was born on 22 Jun 1840 in Kelford, , Nottinghamshire, England; died on 16 Jan 1879 in 18 Hyde Park Terrace, Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was buried on 21 Jan 1879 in Municipal Cemetery, Dorking, , Surrey, England. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]
11. Trentham, Julia Florence was born on 22 Jun 1840 in Kelford, , Nottinghamshire, England (daughter of Trentham, Reverend William Henry and Nelson, Mary); died on 16 Jan 1879 in 18 Hyde Park Terrace, Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was buried on 21 Jan 1879 in Municipal Cemetery, Dorking, , Surrey, England.Other Events and Attributes:
- FamilySearch ID: LT3X-QN6
- _UID: BD97E8ECF82F41DB9ED9E354B2FC1003DAEB
- Census: 6 Jun 1841, Eastlound, Haxey, , Lincolnshire, England
- Census: 30 Mar 1851, 3 Florence Terrace, Islington, , Middlesex, England; St John
- Occupation: 30 Mar 1851, 3 Florence Terrace, Islington, , Middlesex, England; Scholar at home
- Census: 7 Apr 1861, 60 Iversfield, Hastings, , Sussex, England
- Census: 2 Apr 1871, Shrub Hill House, Dorking, , Surrey, England
Notes:
Birth:
First name(s) Julia
Last name Trentham
Birth quarter 3
Birth year 1840
Mother's maiden name Nelson
District East Retford
County Nottinghamshire
Country England
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Page 483
Record set England & Wales Births 1837-2006
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Died:
Date of death - 16th January 1879 following the birth of sixteenth child -Arthur Trentham Maw on 25th December 1878
First name(s) Julia
Last name Maw
Gender Female
Birth day -
Birth month -
Birth year 1841
Age 38
Death quarter 1
Death year 1879
District Kensington
County London
Volume 1A
Page 47
Country England
Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
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Buried:
First name(s) Julia Last name Maw Birth year 1841 Death year 1879 Age 38 Burial year 1879 Burial day 21 Burial month 1 Place Dorking Church description MUNICIPAL CEMETERY Church denomination CEMETERY County Surrey Country England Record set National Burial Index For England & Wales Category Birth, Marriage & Death (Parish Registers) Subcategory Deaths & burials Collections from United Kingdom
Notes:
Married:
First name(s) JULIA Last name TRENTHAM Marriage quarter 3 Marriage year 1860 Registration month -
MarriageFinder™ JULIA TRENTHAM married one of these people
James Williams, Charles Maw District Islington District number - County London Country England Volume 1B Page 287 Record set England & Wales Marriages 1837-2005 Category Birth, Marriage & Death (Parish Registers) Subcategory Marriages & divorces Collections from United Kingdom
Children:
- Maw, Florence Jane was born on 14 Aug 1861 in Richmond, , Surrey, England; was christened on 9 Sep 1861 in St Peter, Petersham, , Surrey, England; died on 16 Dec 1930 in Hill Farm, Westcott, , Surrey, England; was buried in Dec 1930 in Churchyard, Westcott, , Surrey, England.
- Maw, Mary was born on 13 Aug 1862 in Richmond, , Surrey, England; was christened on 12 Sep 1862 in St Peter, Petersham, , Surrey, England; died on 19 Apr 1937 in Little Garth, 15 Garden Walk, Cambridge, , Cambridgeshire, England; was buried on 22 Apr 1937 in Histon Road Cemetery, Histon, , Cambridgeshire, England.
- Maw, Charles Trentham was born on 13 Feb 1864 in Bayswater, , London, England; was christened on 12 Mar 1864 in Petersham, , Surrey, England; died on 7 Oct 1918 in Briars Cross, Limpsfield, , Surrey, England; was buried in Oct 1918 in St Peter Churchyard, Limpsfield, , Surrey, England.
- Maw, Julia was born on 20 Jan 1865 in Brighton, , Sussex, England; was christened on 1 May 1865 in St Peter, Petersham, , Surrey, England; died on 12 Apr 1939 in The Inglenook, Heathfield, , Sussex, England.
- Maw, Henry Trentham was born on 28 May 1866 in St Pancras, London, , England; was christened on 21 Jun 1866 in Petersham, , Surrey, England; died on 23 Apr 1925 in The Old House, Westcott, , Surrey, England; was buried in 1925 in Westcott, , Surrey, England.
- Maw, Frederick Trentham was born on 25 Jul 1867 in Dorking, , Surrey, England; was christened on 17 Aug 1867 in Dorking, , Surrey, England; died on 21 Feb 1929 in Holmwood, Tadworth, , Surrey, England; was buried on 25 Feb 1929 in St Andrew, Kingswood, , Surrey, England.
- Maw, Emily was born on 17 Nov 1868 in Dorking, , Surrey, England; was christened on 15 Dec 1868 in Dorking, , Surrey, England; died on 25 Jan 1942 in South Cliff House, 1 South Cliff, Eastbourne, , Sussex, England.
- Maw, Mowbray Trentham was born on 21 Feb 1870 in Dorking, , Surrey, England; was christened on 23 Mar 1870 in Dorking, , Surrey, England; died on 12 Sep 1940 in Shrub Hill, Calvert Road, Dorking, , Surrey, England; was buried on 16 Sep 1940 in Municipal Cemetery, Dorking, , Surrey, England.
- Maw, Ann was born on 28 Apr 1871 in Shrub Hill House, Dorking, , Surrey, England; was christened on 25 May 1871 in St Martin, Dorking, , Surrey, England; died on 3 Jan 1940 in Esperance Nursing Home, Hartington Place, Eastbourne, , Sussex, England.
- Maw, Reverend George Trentham was born on 26 Jun 1872 in Dorking, , Surrey, England; was christened on 6 Aug 1872 in Holy Trinity, Cowes, , Hampshire, England; died on 18 Oct 1951 in 16 Pearl Court, Eastbourne, , Sussex, England.
- Maw, Martha Helen "Nellie" "Nellie" was born on 11 Sep 1873 in Cowes, , Isle of Wight, England; was christened on 6 Oct 1873 in Holy Trinity, Cowes, , Hampshire, England; died on 30 Aug 1941 in Briar Cottage, Speldhurst, , Kent, England; was buried in 1941 in Churchyard, Speldhurst, , Kent, England.
- Maw, Elizabeth Lilian "Betty" "Betty" was born on 30 Dec 1874 in Richmond, , Surrey, England; was christened on 27 Jan 1875 in St Peter, Petersham, , Surrey, England; died on 7 Sep 1942 in The Lonsdale Nursing Home, Tunbridge Wells, , Kent, England; was buried in Sep 1942 in Churchyard, Speldhurst, , Kent, England.
- Maw, Sarah Octivia "Sally" "Sally" was born on 4 Apr 1876 in Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 25 Jul 1876 in Holy Trinity, Cowes, , Hampshire, England; died on 30 May 1934 in Long Gable, Speldhurst, , Kent, England; was buried in Jun 1934 in Churchyard, Speldhurst, , Kent, England.
- 5. Maw, Sidney "Kitty" Ruth "Kitty" was born on 16 Mar 1877 in Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 22 Aug 1877 in Holy Trinity, Cowes, , Hampshire, England; died on 8 Jan 1947 in Ridgeways, High Trees Road, Reigate, , Surrey, England.
- Maw, Percival "Percy" Trentham "Percy" was born on 20 Jan 1878 in Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 5 Aug 1878 in Holy Trinity, Cowes, , Hampshire, England; died on 30 Jan 1940 in Abbots Leigh, 51 West Avenue, Worthing, , Sussex, England.
- Maw, Arthur Trentham was born on 25 Dec 1878 in Paddington, , Middlesex, England; was christened on 4 Aug 1879 in Cowes, , Isle of Wight, England; died on 31 Aug 1951 in Furzefield, Logmore Lane, Westcott, , Surrey, England.